Do Nice People Really Finish Last?

I've heard the saying "Nice guys finish last." When you think about it, for some reason it seems women tend to want the guy that is tough, or bad for them. Why is that? Is it the chase, the mystery??? What is it that makes us go for most difficult situations? Is it that we want to try to change them, or is it that we feel like we will be different?

In the end, the nice guy that was there for you in anyway possible seems to be left on the sidelines peeking in. He winds up being left there for so long he leaves... Then when we realize, its too late.

I feel like the same holds true for women. Men always want the bitchy chick that is overly confident, quick to leave, and use up a man. When they have that woman that is willing to go all out to prove that she is a good woman, she gets stomped on. It is just sooo funny.

If you feel like you know why we do things like this, let me know. I would like to hear from guys and girls. How do you tackle relationships in general, romantic or not. Do you go after the good ones or the bad?

Are you the good guy-girl?? What experiences have you had that lead you to believe that you got the crappy end of the deal?